In your quest to be healthier, fitter and slimmer have you thought about how you see yourself? Are you always looking for and seeing the negative -what you don't like about yourself, how you don't want to be, all the failures you think you make?
Where your focus goes, your energy flows so is it worth the time and effort of giving all your energy to feeling negative? What would it feel like to focus on the positive - what you do like about yourself, how you would like to be and all the achievements you do make?
For some of you feeling negative may feel comfortable - it's what you always do, it gets you noticed, it allows you to feel sorry for yourself but it also can keep you stuck and attract even more negativity into your life. The thought of changing yourself into a more positive person might even feel quite scary as this might be someone you would not recognise.
When you are thinking of making changes in your life, first think about who you would be if you made this change. Can you really see yourself as healthier, fitter or slimmer person for example? Would you like to be a person who can say "No" to the less healthy foods and "Yes" to exercise? Can you hear yourself saying "thank you" to the compliments that come your way? Can you see yourself looking in the mirror and thinking "Wow, I look good!"? Can you imagine waking up feeling like you want to make healthy choices for the rest of the day? If not, then you have to ask yourself the question what is the point of becoming healthier, fitter and slimmer if I don't really want to be that person!
On the other hand, if you do want to be that person, then be that person now! The sooner you start making the choices that a healthier, fitter and slimmer person would make, the sooner you will see yourself being healthier, fitter and slimmer. Change will not happen without action, so today....
ACT AS IF YOU ARE!
Sue x


